All of us are busy with our lives. And a major portion of our life is spent maintaining our relationship with our loved ones. If we are involved in a romantic relationship and not yet married, we generally analyze him every now and then. Sometimes, sharing the incidents with your closed ones just to judge him sounds good and enough, but is it really?
One needs to self-analyze him and make a decision if he is the right one for the rest of your life.
1. He accepts his imperfection
Nobody is perfect and so I am, but what one needs is to understand this realization. We are not machines, after all, so we don’t need to be perfect. We all are nature’s creature with the quality of being better than the rest of the living beings. He accepts that he has flaws and the best part is he works on improving them.
2. He accepts the way you are
He is not keen to change you instead he accepts and appraises for who you are. He doesn’t argue to change you 360 degrees just to be with him. As a result of which you guys enjoy each other’s company instead of fighting over one’s weakness and flaws. But he assures you to help you change for the betterment.
3. He supports you.
It is very important for both of you to support each other whatever the situation is. If you are going through a low phase in your life, he supports you at every cost. He understands that everyone has problems, so are you. So, instead of leaving you in a sinking boat he stands by you in your ups and down.
4. His love is beyond lust.
Loving someone involves a balance between both emotional and physical needs. We are human beings, so we do have physical needs but it doesn’t mean that lust overpowers your love. And this he understands well, so maintaining a balance between sex and emotional love is very important. He desires you but your consent is equally important for him, too.
5. He understands that you want to have shared finances.
He appreciates your career and fully understands your urge of sharing the household finances. He supports you in strengthening your finances and desires too. As a result of which he does not try to be dominant in expenses instead understands your take of sharing it.
6. He respects you and your parents like his own
Respect is something which strengthens the pillars of a relationship. So, he respects you and desires for the favour, too. He also understands that your parents are your loved ones like nobody else, as a result of which he respects them as his own parents.
7. He gives you space
He does not interfere with your “me” time, i.e., he understands that your friends are equally important like his friends. So, he lets you enjoy and party with them. He does not restrict you from going on trips with friends. Instead, he encourages you to go on trips with friends and even solo trips. But at the same time, he keeps a check of your well-being too.